licensed marriage and family therapist

Well, its complicated.

For some couples, going to bed angry is actually beneficial, while for others, its not.

That said, there are reasons to hit the pause buttonand ways to do it effectively.

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Youre worried about missed sleep

Furthermore, sleep itself can become an issue.

The one hard and fast rule about conflict is that you better talk about it eventually, Hummel says.

Engaging in conflict management early and as needed is essential for the health of a relationship.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

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Having a plan for when youre going to continue the conversation is helpful, he says.

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Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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