Wondering if introverts and extroverts can live together?

The answer is yesbut with a few important caveats.

An introvert is not just a shy person.

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(Some folks are evenambiverts, which describesa blend of introvert and extrovert tendencies.)

Their lifestyles may simply butt heads, and ultimately this may drive them apart.

But, thats not the be-all and end-all of the situation.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

clinical psychologist, life fulfillment expert, and author ofDate Smart,Joy From Fear, andAging Joyfully

The extrovert may, in turn, be attracted to the introverts more thoughtful, reserved style.

The introvert may discover newfound enjoyment in social activities that would have previously been avoided, says Dr. Manly.

3 ways to keep the opposites attract mentality alive once youve moved in together.

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So, anticipating these differencesand discussing how youll work through them ahead of timecan be essential for your partnership.

Below, find three tips to stop that situation from taking shape.

Is there a certain number of dinner parties that doesnt leave them feeling pooped?

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Whats their favorite way to recharge?

How many hours a day do they need me-time?

The more introverted a person is, the more psychologically taxing a social event will be.

Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

clinical psychologist, life fulfillment expert, and author ofDate Smart,Joy From Fear, andAging Joyfully

And, vice versa: as an introvert you may discover that your extroverted S.O.

inspires you to get yourself out there, and you make wonderful, new connections as a result.

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