Want to discover your inner provocateur?

Here, three tips for connecting your mental self with your physical self through sensual stories.

Picture this: Youre in your bedroom.

alt

Is this the opening scene of a romance novel?

Could this be your own personal and intimate Valentines Day evening or pre-game?

Solo or partnered, Valentines Day is a holiday to revel in self love (andself pleasure).

You know that buzzy, relaxed feeling you get after feeling pleasure?

Its not that different from the end of a yoga class, she says.

You know that buzzy, relaxed feeling you get after feeling pleasure?

Its not that different from the end of a yoga class.

Pleasure matters, she says.

Note it about yourself, and ask for more for it.

Consider Valentines Day the perfect invitation to utilize Gutierrezs tips for doing just that.

Talk to yourself like youd speak to a trusted lover

First, invest in some intimate self talk.

Having a hard time getting into it?

To help, try listening to Dipseas sensual stories to get yourself into the mood.

Ground yourself in your body

Next, get out of your headand into your body.

Did you already say yes to a plan youre not that excited about?

Do you want to get dressed to the nines and feel like your sexiest self?

Own your own power this Valentines Day, says Gutierrez.

Select your fantasy like a fine wine that you get to be picky about, advises Gutierrez.

Nope, too cold.

Okay, on a beach?

All you need is you, says Gutierrez.

Stop waiting for someone else to know you better than you know yourself.

Yepyour inner provocateur was in there all along.

Got it, you’ve been added to our email list.