Curious about how to introduce kink into a relationship in a not intimidating way?
A sexologist shares her four golden rules for broaching the subject.
4 tips for how to introduce kink into a relationship, according to a sexologist.

Before bringing up anything to a partner, know that your interests and preferences are valid.
V also recommends coming from a place of vulnerability.
Do you have some time to talk?

sex coach and clinical sexologist for Royal
or Hey, do you have the bandwidth to talk about something?
Ive been hesitant to bring it up because Im scared, but its really important to me.
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Thats why clarity about what you want to you want to introduce into your relationship is so important.
Once the subject is broached, start small.
Wouldnt it be fun for us to play with a little spanking?

The idea of you doing that during sex is so hot!
Is that something youd be open to exploring?
And the conversation can (hopefully) flow from there.

sex coach and clinical sexologist for Royal
However, not everyone will start with a positive reaction.
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