There are many types of narcissism, but a vulnerable narcissist might be the hardest to spot.

Here, learn the signs you could be dating one.

Narcissism, though, isnt just someone loud, attention-hungry,self-involved, or necessarily any other single trait.

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Unfortunately, this reality can make identifying one a bit tricky.

A particularly harder-to-spot throw in that you definitely dont want to be in a romantic relationship with?

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licensed clinical psychologist and author ofShould I Stay Or Should I Go?

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

licensed clinical psychologist and author ofShould I Stay Or Should I Go?

6 signs you could be in a relationship with a vulnerable narcissist

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The contempt will sound something like,Ugh, why are people doing that?

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Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

They begin overextending thankless support, but its never reciprocated.

or How come the waiter at the restaurant isnt treating me well?

They are jealous of others successes

Its envy thats specifically strenuous in romantic partnerships.

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If you are fine with the current condition, stay.

Its just not going to happen.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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