BDSM and kinky sex can be frightening for some, but it doesn’t have to be!

Sexperts weigh in on some starter kink accessories.

Meanwhile, BDSM stands for bondage, dominance or discipline, sadism or submission, and masochism.

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It can encompass a variety of consensual sex acts that certainly fall under the umbrella of kink.

BDSM also plays on power dynamics (i.e.

dominant and submissive), and very often includes pleasure tools that inflict certain sensations.

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Courtney Kocak is the co-founder and co-host of Private Parts Unknown, a podcast exploring love and sexuality around the world.

7 kink accessories BDSM beginners and vets alike will love.

Plus, the oil makes for awonderful aftercare massage.

For another option, try LELOs Flickering Touch Massage Candle.

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The Emojibators Shibari Rope has been a great, non-intimidating entry point.

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Alexandra co-signs on this point, adding that the tool can make you feel good at the same time.

If you slip on both cuffs, youve got yourself rock-and-roll-style bracelets that pair well with any LBD.

Just be sure not to crack the whip without first gaining permission.

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Courtney Kocak is the co-founder and co-host of Private Parts Unknown, a podcast exploring love and sexuality around the world.

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