It also has pleasure-compromising implications for all parties involved.

follow these 7 tips.

A good starter question for opening the conversation is simple: Do you want to talk about it?

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If that answer is yes, move on to other supportive questions.

Would you want to work through some exercises together?

Would you rather start on your own?

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In these cases, sexual relations should be for and to enjoynot associated with performance.

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Dont get hung up on the erection

You dont need an erection to have pleasurable sex.

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And if you dont need penetration, says Dr. OReilly.

Sex doesnt stop because the penis ejaculates.

Positive reinforcement is powerful here.

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Show them what you like.

Tell them what you love.

Take them by the hand or the hair and guide them.

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Focus on your own pleasure, and learn to be a taker.

Many [people] feel that this way will be easier for them to overcome fear and shame.

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