But much like the honeymoon phase, that feeling certainly wont last forever.

Whereas, NRE is more or less a chemical experience outside of your control.

(In fact, the loss of NRE can lead to a lot of comfort and joy!)

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That means answering the question will require some self-reflection.

To start, think about how you feel about making plans with your partner.

When NRE fades, you may also start to spend less time with your partner, notes Matlack.

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Another thing to consider is how you feel about your partner when youre spending time together.

As NRE starts to disappear, youll get the opportunity to learn just how multidimensional your partner may be.

But, how long will NRE last, exactly?

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Typically, just a few weeks to a couple of months, says Zane.

Though Engle notes that, in some relationships, it can last for years.

Thats normal and okayand also, it may be time to end the relationship.

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