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Did I remember to unplug the flat iron?

Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

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What if this Uber driver suddenly decides to drive off this highway a laThelma & Louise?

And thats where using a therapeutic tool called a worry tree can help.

After all, worried thoughts arent just annoying in the moment, and they dont exist in a vacuum.

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doctor of psychology, licensed marriage and family therapist, certified EMDR practitioner, and the author ofGaslighting: A Step-by-Step Recovery Guide and Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens

How does a worry tree work?

A worry tree is not just a practical tool but an empowering mindfulness process, as well.

This creates space for neutral or even hopeful, optimistic thoughts to enter and balance out pessimism and worry.

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How to use a worry tree to work through anxious thoughts

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These worries are actionable and have a direct impact on your life.

These are the, What if?

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A few examples: What if my plane crashes?

or What if my child gets kidnapped on the way home?

or What if I catch a terrible illness?

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doctor of psychology, licensed marriage and family therapist, certified EMDR practitioner, and the author ofGaslighting: A Step-by-Step Recovery Guide and Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens

Even if its imagined, theres still a residue of worry, says Dr. Lyons.

And then over time, it can become a lake.

Oftentimes, just putting the plan in place can ease some of the anxiety around the worry.

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