It was 1964 and you had just moved from Hong Kong.

And in learning English, you struggled a bit.

I witnessed all the ways you kept the family afloat, especially during tough financial times.

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You postponed and often skipped dentist and doctor visits so that you could save money on copays.

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You worked overtimeoften missing holidays and family gatherings.

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You made these sacrifices so that my sisters and I could pursue higher education.

And two years after, the first in our family with a Masters degree.

In many ways, I mirrored your ambition and drive in my own life.

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Your determination to learn English inspired me to travel and learn Cantonese, Spanish, Thai, and Portuguese.

When gung gung died, I know life wasnt easy on you, po po.

You have held the weight of the family on your shoulders for years.

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