Here’s how one writer feels about it.

Did you open that single large cabinet?

Did you notice an Instant Pot-size vacancy on the shelf?

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Thats to say, my husband doesntwantto irritate me; hes empathetic, sensitive, smart, and kind.

Im apparently the only one who can find the lid.)

According to Conger, this requires sticking to a three-step plan.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT, is an AASECT-certified sex therapist and relationship therapist. She works closely with her clients to achieve their unique vision of a satisfying relationship landscape and to attain personal ease and fulfillment.

As far as an action plan and letting go of control?

Both are works in progress; habits are hard to change!

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Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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Courtesy Berkley Publishing