Its no wonder, then, that the eventual breakups sent me spiraling.

Thats certainly been true for me.

(Trust me, Ive been there, and it never helps.)

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To do that, she suggests engaging in somatic work.

Not sure where to start?

Its also a good idea to share with them the ways in which youd like to be supported.

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founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and editor-in-chief of Heart Hackers Club, an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust, and desire

Let them know that you would like a listener who offers empathy rather than advice, suggests Chan.

This approach effectively reshapes your neural landscape, aiding in the recovery process.

Evraire, Lyndsay Elizabeth et al.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

The Contribution of Attachment Styles and Reassurance Seeking to Trust in Romantic Couples.Europes journal of psychologyvol.

25 Feb. 2022, doi:10.5964/ejop.3059

Eisma, Maarten C et al.

Desired attachment and breakup distress relate to automatic approach of the ex-partner.Journal of behavior therapy and experimental psychiatryvol.

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