For polyamorous couples, compersion extends to joy felt when ones partner experiences joy with another lover.
Some signs you might be experiencing romantic compersion in subtle ways already?
Of course, this idea has platonic applications, too.

Think about the levels of excitement and connection you have with people throughout your life, she says.
Its almost like you get pleasure and fulfillment from their pleasure and their fulfillment.
Maybe youve been struggling with fertility, or maybe youre actively repulsed by the idea of pregnancy.

sexologist and author ofPlaying Without a Partner
And, in fact,research supports this.
Tanya Bass, PhD, sexologist
I think theyrerelated, but that doesnt mean the opposite of.
Jealousy typically arises when a person feels threatened, says Dr. Bass.

Jealousy might point to an unmet need thats preventing you fromfeeling securely attached in your relationship.
Maybe, suggests Dr. Stubbs, you feel intimidated or in danger of losing your partner.
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