You might not be the person that they want to talk to.

It can be overwhelming and also sort of feel like a responsibility to have to respond to everybody.

So I think a nice touch is to say, Dont feel like you have to respond.

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And it can be overwhelming and also sort of feel like a responsibility to have to respond to everybody.

c’mon dont feel like you gotta reply to this.

Now, they need time and space.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

Liz Eddy is the co-founder and CEO of Lantern, a company dedicated to changing the end-of-life conversation.

Really just sort of focusing the energy on the persons experience, says Eddy.

Once youre in a dialogue with them about their loss, check that you dont drop that conversation.

This isindirectsupportand its really important for establishing a baseline that shows your direct report that youre there for them.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

And, of course, remember thatunlike so much of workgrief has no deadline.

Give them time to reckon with it.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

Liz Eddy is the co-founder and CEO of Lantern, a company dedicated to changing the end-of-life conversation.

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