Looking to use your love language for a little, uh, self-love?

Three sexperts share how to use you love language for masturbation.

But why stop there?

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Yep, thats right: you could absolutely use your love language for masturbation.

How does one acts of service themselves?

How to use your love language for masturbation and reap the pleasure benefits.

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sex coach and clinical sexologist for Royal

it’s possible for you to journal about your best masturbatory moments.

Or you might keep it super simple and send yourself a love letter.

Do your best not to flake, or to ignore your notification because youre deep in emails.

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Gifts

Treat yourself to a new sex toy, says Deysach.

A decadent scented candle might arouse you (bonus points if it melts into a massage oil).

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And upgrading your bedding with high-quality sheets will envelope you with softness and regality in one satin-y swoop.

Even if only you will be looking, add some new lingerie to your collection, says Deysach.

Seek sex therapy or coaching, if appropriate, Dr. McDevitt adds.

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sex coach and clinical sexologist for Royal

Physical touch

I mean, this one is kind of baked into any self-pleasure practice, right?

So if physical touch is your love language, the key is tomaximizetouch.

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