But, how can you understand your sexual compatibility with someone before having sex?
But what should you discuss, more specifically, in this conversation about sexual compatibility before having sex?
And, if you find that you lack sexual compatibility, is it possible to work on growing it?

To determine that, Mendez says masturbation and self-pleasure can be particularly helpful.
Masturbation is a wonderful way of finding out what feels good or doesnt feel good.
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Los Angeles-based certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist
We feel more pleasure when we know how and what to do and when, says Mendez.
We dont have to worry about, Did I do this right?
If you currently lack sexual compatibility, what can you do?

Its not because you want to embarrass yourself or your partner by putting each other on the spot.
Good sex can, and often does, start with a conversation.
After all, no one talks seriously about how to havebadsex.

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