There’s no single right way to end a relationship, but there are plenty of wrong ways.

Here, learn the common breakup mistakes to avoid.

And thats true even if youre the person initiating the breakup.

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As a dating coach and founder ofCoaching Hearts Consulting, Ive seen firsthand the unfortunate ways that unions dissolve.

Breakups are hard and the reality is someone will most likely be hurt.

7 common breakup mistakes people make when ending a relationship

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Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

Instead, write down your thoughts, and take them with you to read in person.

Doing so requires self-control and awareness.

Words cant be unspoken.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

Even after an apology, the sting can still leave a mark, long after youve parted ways.

Once the relationship dissolves, it doesnt mean that your friendships need to end as well.

make a run at restrain yourself from telling your friends they need to pick a side.

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They have the right to stay friends with both parties if they choose.

If you pretend like everything is okay and prolong the inevitable, you are not doing anyone any favors.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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Courtesy Berkley Publishing