Sometimes, positive selfishness in a relationship can actually improve your union.

Here are four tips from a psychotherapist to exercise it.

One indicator you may be giving to others more than yourself is a growing sense of resentment.

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4 healthy ways to prioritize positive selfishness in a relationship

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If being one with your own experience feels uncomfortable, consider why.

Might that be because youre accustomed to wondering whatothersthink and feel?

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

When deciding what to keep for yourself, consider the difference between seeking privacy and hiding out.

Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries

Prioritizing space isnt indulgent but rather an act of self- and relational-preservation.

to set boundaries, we have to become acquainted with the idea that we have limits.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

When yousay no to others, you say yes to yourself: your passions, sensuality, and creativity.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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