Find answers to questions singles ask a sex therapist most often from Joy Berkheimer, LMFT.
Hint: a lot of them have to do with orgasms.
Which is why the work of sex therapists likeJoy Berkheimer, LMFT, is so important.
The top 3 questions singles ask a sex therapist
1.
Why cant I orgasm?
Primarily the question iswhy cant I orgasmwith another person, she says.
Florida-based sexologist, licensed marriage and family therapist, chief sexologist atSXWA
Because theyre not sure what they enjoy, theyre not able to communicate their desires to partners.
And while there are many reasons for this too, Berkheimer says one common factor is usually at play.
Its usually anarrative around shame, so theres some difficulty in exploring what is possible, she says.
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Why do I want to have sex so much and/or so often?
Another FAQ has to do with someones desire related to the amount and frequency of sex they have.
If its blocking you from doing normal things in your life, then its a problem, she says.
Why cant I get wet and/or wet enough during sex?
The third most-common question that Berkheimer receives from her single clients has to do with lubrication during sex.
Florida-based sexologist, licensed marriage and family therapist, chief sexologist atSXWA
She also mentions that it takes longer for people with vulvas to become aroused.
It could also have to do with someones mind being somewhere else during sex, she says.
The body, genitals, and brain are very much connected, Berkheimer says.
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