This is what fuels us feeling the post-NRE crash so acutely.
And after the crash, its common to discover a conflict of what Dr.
Wise callserotic love styles, which includes both what turns us on and how we like to have sex.
Wise says the most common sexual problem she treats is mismatched desire and love stye.
Here are her 6 tips to bridge the gap.
Start by sorting out where you are on the desire curve.
licensed psychotherapist, cognitive neuroscientist, and certified sex therapist
Dont sweat about where exactly you are, enjoy the peaks and dont sweat the valleys, she says.
At this point, if it seems you and your partner arent meshing well, dont panic.
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Use the bedroom as a playground to get inventive with your sexual styles.
Be the lover you want to have, says Dr. Show intense interest in your partner.
Stop relying on your habitual sexual relationship and start relating in present time.
Cultivate the courage to get bolder in conversations in and out of the bedroom.
If you arent comfortable with taking risks, all the more reason to do so.
And if you lack ideas, ask your partner what [they] really, really want.
licensed psychotherapist, cognitive neuroscientist, and certified sex therapist
Thats taking a risk, too.
Whatever it is, talk it out.
Theres nothing as dulling to a sex life as long-standing, low-boiling upsets or frustrations, Dr. People who cultivate lifelong sexual potential are those who are erotically engaged in living, says Dr.
They pursue their passions for learning and experience as human beings.
Go out and fall in love with life and bring that home to your partner.
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