Polyamory fits under the non-monogamy umbrella, but there’s a crucial difference separating the two.

Here, learn about the difference.

The point here is that non-monogamy is a general term that can take on a number of meanings.

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So, the key difference between general non-monogamy and polyamory?

And with non-monogamy, a needany needis getting met by more than one person.

Yes, for some people itmightbe just about sex.

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Everyone involved is consenting, contributing, and agreeing to the guidelines put in place.

It isnt a free-for-all, replete with lies and cheating.

Polyamory versus non-monogamy: Whats the key difference?

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Polyamorous people may have a commitment to more than one person they are in a relationship with.

It is not just about sex; it is also about emotional connection and developing romantic relationships.

[Polyamory] is not just about sex; it is also about emotional connection and developing romantic relationships.

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What can complicate things are folks who identify as polyamorous, yet are only romantically involved with one person.

There are plenty of folks who experience non-monogamy or polyamory as an orientation.

For example, someone may be just as polyamorous as they are heterosexual or pansexual.

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Others may have their sexual orientation and then, their relationship design is a choice.

So, if someone tells you that being non-monogamous or polyamorous, isjust who they are, believe them.

And if someone tells you that theyre not sure but would love to try,believe them.

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