How long should sex be anyway?

With that in mind, the goal of sex is, apparently, doing it all night long.

But for many vulva-owners, the constant in-out, in-out of vaginally penetrative sex can be tedious oreven painful.

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So, how long should sex be, ideally?

The short answer is that according to sexperts, it depends.

Are you going for a quickie, or are you in for a long, passion-filled night?

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Depending on which way youre going, how much time you take [to climax] will vary.

Be sure to be present in your bodyit will tell you when youve had enough.

While data varies and is hugely personal, a main directive is to keep the orgasm gap in mind.

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In fact, it can often mean the exact oppositeespecially if youre unprepared.

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Is it possible to have sex thats way too short?

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In this situation of sex thats not long enough, there are many options for being able to troubleshoot.

And if youre looking to wrap things up, its okay to express that.

Sometimes we spend too much time thinking about the orgasm instead of sexual fulfillment of satisfaction.

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Stewart also suggests dirty talking your partner to orgasm.

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