As a trans, nonbinary, agender person, navigating sex and pleasure can be challenging.

Here’s what I want cisgender people to know about having sex with me.

Some of my favorites that feature trans and nonbinary bodies and voices areCrashpad Series,Bellesa, andAORTA Films.

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Now imagine that conversation happening during sex.

Not ideal, right?

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Sometimes I want to hack off the lumps on my chest, sometimes I dont mind them at all.

Regarding how to ensure those limits and boundaries are respected, communication is key.

Have a conversation about setting ground rules, and ideate alternatives when necessary.

A couple in bed, having an intimate kink experience.

Good ones highlight ways to experience pleasure, are inclusive, and contain a language section.

Ive had great success using Yes/No/Maybe lists to initiate conversation around sex and boundaries with cis partners.

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