Curious what it means if you prefer to masturbate over having sex with a partner?
In this edition of Good@Sex, Alexandra Fine explains.
Still, depending on your personal quarantine living situation, it may also be impacting your relationship.
Question
I live with my partner, and were spending more time together than ever right now.
Nothing is wrong, per sein fact, were getting along super well.
Yet, Im…not in the mood for sex.
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Well, partnered sex.
You see, Iamin the mood for alone time and self-pleasure.
Is it normal that I prefer to masturbate over having sex with my partner right now?
Now consider that many animals struggle to procreate in captivity.
What is The Missionary Sex Position?
Perels thesis is essentially that closeness tends to kill desire.
The more we truly become one with our partners, the less mystery there is to be curious about.
We need to be distinct individuals to get to want each other.
So whats the solution, as it pertains to our human lives and human experiences?
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We need to be distinct individuals so that want each other.
Create a date night ritual, dance together, set upvacation-like scenarios.
Its a real win-win.
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