Tricky family dynamics are commonbut can your partner’s relationship with their parents mean anything for your romance?

But the reality of this notion can get a little murky.

That includes the good and badincluding dysfunction, she says.

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But, when thats not the case, its not the most emotionally mature response, she says.

Thats different from just cutting people off because they disagree with you.

Get details, says Dr. Mayer.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

clinical psychologist and author ofFamily Fit: Find Your Balance in Life

You must find out why.

To this end, Dr. Abrell recommends talking to them about how they plan to approach this role.

In some instances, it may involve therapy to help them work through certain issues.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

Ultimately, their awareness of the situation and how it has impacted them is important, Dr. Abrell says.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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