Hey, just because you dont mesh with someone doesnt mean theyre a bad person!

Theyre just notyourtype of person, and thats totally cool.

5 supposed relationship red flags that, in fact, may not be

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However, Dr. Kederian points out that thats not always the case.

The same goes for the opposite.

If theyve been in too many serious relationships, people can interpret that as a relationship red flag.

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But again, Dr. Kederian reminds us not to judge someone by their past.

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Practicing sobriety

Someones sobriety isnt necessarily a red flag either.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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