For some, however, role-play is also agateway into BDSM, says Dr. Queen.
Below, sex educators break down how to turn any role-play fantasy into your sexual reality.
Spend a few minutes rolling the below popular role-play ideas around in your brain and body.

Start by adding sex talk wherever you’ve got the option to, says Dr. Queen.
Leading with vulnerability can spark vulnerability in return.
Make a Yes/No/Maybe list with a partner
When youre comfortable with sex talk, level up to sex activities.

staff sexologist and educator atGood Vibrations
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!with Tina Horn are good starting points.
But its also important to acknowledge that it doesnt have to be.Phew.

This can help you avoid feeling overwhelmed (which is not exactly a sexy emotion).
Consider working with a sex professional
Single?
Polyamous but dont have a partner who is game for role-play?

Consider hiring a sexuality professional, suggests Deysach.
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