For some, however, role-play is also agateway into BDSM, says Dr. Queen.

Below, sex educators break down how to turn any role-play fantasy into your sexual reality.

Spend a few minutes rolling the below popular role-play ideas around in your brain and body.

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Start by adding sex talk wherever you’ve got the option to, says Dr. Queen.

Leading with vulnerability can spark vulnerability in return.

Make a Yes/No/Maybe list with a partner

When youre comfortable with sex talk, level up to sex activities.

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staff sexologist and educator atGood Vibrations

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!with Tina Horn are good starting points.

But its also important to acknowledge that it doesnt have to be.Phew.

A couple in bed, having an intimate kink experience.

This can help you avoid feeling overwhelmed (which is not exactly a sexy emotion).

Consider working with a sex professional

Single?

Polyamous but dont have a partner who is game for role-play?

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Consider hiring a sexuality professional, suggests Deysach.

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staff sexologist and educator atGood Vibrations

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