And equating sex with an instinctual drive doesnt accurately capture that range.

And we all know, you wont die without sex, however much you might want it.

Physiologically, drives are reserved for survival-related activities such as the need for oxygen, food, and water.

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Are they driven to have sex like they are driven to succeed at work?

Because, in that case, drive might be an apt term.

With that motivation for sex often comes a reward, which reinforces the cycle.

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If sex is not a drive, then why are some people motivated to have it?

Sex can certainly be a natural desire, if not technically a drive.

And generally, that occurs in two ways:spontaneous and responsive.

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People who do not experience much if any sexual attractionmay identify as asexual, says Dr. Cobb.

But, this doesnt preclude these same people from having an interest in romance or intimacy.

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There is nothing wrong with existing on the asexuality spectrum.

And if thats you, know that youre not lacking some sort of natural human drive.

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