Heres how one new mom combats it online and IRL.

Your Low-Stress Guide to Leveling-Up Your Bedtime Routine

Are You Burnt Out or Depressed?

Admittedly, I thought I would drop it easily postpartum just like my mom did.

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She gave birth vaginallybut I had an emergency C-section, and a longer road to recovery because of it.

And probably most importantly: Everybodyand every bodyis different.

Which is why I find snapback culture so problematic.

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Jess Goldman, CNM, is a certified nurse midwife at NewYork-Presbyterian Medical Group.

And as a new mama to a beautiful six-month-old daughter, this issue is personal for me.

But here are four key actions that continue to help me reject snapback culture.

Patience is an important part of any transformation.

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(I also still breastfeed my daughter exclusively, so everything I eat, she does as well.)

And lifes too short and precious not to experience much-deserved joy.

My focus isstrengthening my core and pelvic floorto ensure that my body functions optimally as a whole.

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Im also building back my running volume and intensity without overworking myself.

Im constantly reminded that life after a baby is not the sameits even better!

Im learning to navigate mamahoods many steep curves, filled with thrills, spills, and unforgettable memories.

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Jess Goldman, CNM, is a certified nurse midwife at NewYork-Presbyterian Medical Group.

At the end of the day, our bodies are fundamentally changed by birthing, she says.

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