(Not to mention, the everyday money realities of cohabiting and coexisting, in plenty of cases.)
5 major questions to ask your future spouse before marriage
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What was your financial life like growing up?

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Do you have any debt?
Much of that debt accumulated during their marriage, making his concealment of it a veritable form offinancial infidelity.

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Despite their divorce, she wound up having to pay off over $800,000 of it.
Will you help them to do so?
How will we split expenses and other financial responsibilities between us?
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What is your process for budgeting?
For example, can you each spend freely using a joint account?
And what about on individual credit cards?

Coming to an agreement about these types of personal spending habits can mitigate tension around a shared budget.
What are your financial goals and dreams?
Flexibility is one of the keys to maintaining a healthy couple-money dynamic over time, says Dr. Ford.

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