This kind of vulnerability is just as essential for maintaining platonic friendships as it is for upholding romantic relationships.

Our culture places a higher value on romance than friendshipperiod.

The subtext of such messaging is that theres more value in being a partner than in being a friend.

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Even the connotation of the term dating cements the societal importance of romance over platonic connection.

And from there, marriage goes on to legally define a relationship.

But where does friendship fall into this picture?

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

I miss having deeper conversations with you that I find are hard to have over text.

Are you able to make some time for that?

Problem:I dont like that my friend is dismissive when I tell them personal stories.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

Like any healthy romantic relationship, a healthy friendship cant just sustain itself.

It will require effort, intentionality, respect, trust, and reciprocity to get to truly thrive.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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