Not all perfectionists are created equally.

Here, learn the three types of perfectionism, and how to overcome the damaging qualities of each.

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Ben Cherkasky, LPC, a licensed professional counselor at Skylight Counseling Center.

board-certified psychiatrist based in Atlanta

licensed clinical psychologist and author ofShould I Stay Or Should I Go?

3 types of perfectionism to know about

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Ben Cherkasky, LPC, a licensed professional counselor at Skylight Counseling Center.

At a more extreme level, this can become obsessive and cause someone to feel anxious, she says.

Other-oriented perfectionism

Pretty much the opposite of a self-oriented perfectionist, other-oriented perfectionists direct their perfectionist standards toward others.

This can understandably cause problems at work and in relationships.

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The persons self-esteem is tied up in portraying themselves and being viewed as perfect by the world.

Andthatswhen perfectionism is a problem.

It also can be helpful to get off social media.

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Ben Cherkasky, LPC, a licensed professional counselor at Skylight Counseling Center.

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