There are three distinct types of loneliness, and each reflects a missing piece of overall social health.

Experts break it down.

These scenarios roughly correspond to different types of loneliness: intimate, relational, and collective.

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As such, this punch in of loneliness was likely the most common to arise during the pandemic.

And thanks to social distancing, that frequency likely dropped to all but zero during lockdown.

A helpful tip from Dr. Franco?

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

associate therapist at Manhattan Wellness

Prime yourself with the assumption that your friends like you just as much as you like them.

Research shows that were typically less likely to be rejected than we think we are, she says.

Collective loneliness happens when youre feeling disconnected from this larger group.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

associate therapist at Manhattan Wellness

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