So when my moved forced us into long-distance friendships, I wondered whether we would just…grow apart?
In an effort to keep my friendships alive, I became a huge phone-date person.
But, as Ive already learned firsthand, maintaining friendships without the IRL connection can be tricky.
And apparently, I recently learned, the medium through which you communicate in long-distance friendshipsdoesmatter.
Talking on the phone adds a vocal channel because you might hear inflection and tone.
Talking over video adds a visual channel because now youre able to see the person.
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(Both needs can, but dont have to be, met by the same people.)
The important thing to know is that no one needsnoconnection, he says.
Some friends can talk once a year and always pick up where they left off like nothing has changed.
Other friendships require more regular communication.
Some friends can talk once a year and always pick up where they left off like nothing has changed.
Other friendships require more regular communication.
Its up to the two people in the relationship to figure out what their needs are.
What if a long-distance friendship doesnt fulfill your needs?
Because, as Dr. Floyd says, we need quality and quantity in our interactions.
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To that end, be extra mindful right now of how your friendships are fulfilling you.
Here are more tips on keeping along-distance friendship bond strong.
Andheres how bond bracelets can help you feelphysically connected to people who are far away.
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