Want to try something new in bed but fear that your partner might judge you?

A sexologist shares a helpful script.

Yes, even if its something youreterrifiedto ask for.

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We all have our passions, we all have our turn-ons.

But research reveals howtalking about what you want in bedstrengthens your relationships.

How to start a conversation when you want to try something new in bed

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sex coach and clinical sexologist for Royal

Do your research to decide if you really want to try something new in bed before opening the conversation.

This will prepare you to answer their questions, should they have any.

Consent, consent, consent.

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Is it after sex, after a glass of wine, over a romantic dinner?

Ask for their consent to have the conversation, verify its a good time for them.

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Check in with them to be sure if they have the bandwidth to discuss.

You never know how someone will react, which doesnt mean you should panic!

It just means that you should come from a really humble place.

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sex coach and clinical sexologist for Royal

Its a new thing I want to try in bed, is now a good time?

Lets set a time to revisit the subject once youve had a chance to think about it.

No matter the outcome, you should bring it up.

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