A relationship expert answers the question “what is a loyalty check?”
and gives advice for what to do instead.
This looks like sliding into their DMs, flirting with them, and seeing what happens next.
I have also seen relationships end due to a loyalty check.
Below, he further explains why you may be craving a loyalty check, and what to do instead.
Its also possible your insecurity stems from some aspect of your current relationship.
Lee Phillips, LCSW, is an award-winning psychotherapist with over 13 years of experience.
There is usually something occurring in the relationship, where the person does not trust their partner.
This may be from pastinfidelity within the relationshipor infidelity from past relationships.
It can also be from witnessing their partner flirt with others, says Dr. Phillips.
But hear this, okay?
Going through with testing your relationship wont actually address the root of that insecurity.
In fact, it could mean the tumultuous end of your relationship.
This jot down of manipulation may cause them to leave the relationship.
And thus, taking time to reflect about what is breeding that insecurity is crucial.
They may also feel pain and hurt if the loyalty check does not work.
Lee Phillips, LCSW, is an award-winning psychotherapist with over 13 years of experience.
So take the time to learn about them before blowing up something good.
No valiant act of loyalty is a substitute for your health and well-being.
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