You shouldn’t feel bad about saving sex for special occasions.

Here, a sex therapist gives tips for couples who do that.

Those who save it for more special occasions [might feel] like sex is meant to be sacred.

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Its meant to be special.

People who save sex for special occasions…dont necessarily need sex to nourish that relationship emotionally.

Rather, perhaps they consider sex to be a physical demonstration of love towards somebody else, Mendez says.

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Los Angeles-based certified sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist

Relationships start with emotional connection.

Thats really whats sustaining people, says Mendez.

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This exercise can help ensure more pleasurable experiences down the road.

For instance, you might discuss what made, or would make, sex meaningful for you.

Sometimes we forget what sex means to each other, says Mendez.

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