Monogamy isn’t for everyone.

The term open means that both parties involved are open to other connections.

There are no two open relationships that are the same, because we are all different human beings.

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So, could it work for you?

Crucially, agreements arent the same as rules that are set for us (like the law).

One person doesnt get to unilaterally dictate how something works, and both people need to agree.

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This requires open and honest internal reflection and external communication.

What constitutes an agreement can vary and change throughout the timeline of a relationship.

There are also agreements around disclosure, honesty, and privacy.

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Also, how much do you feel comfortable sharing?

Figuring out where each partners needs overlap is crucial in navigating the agreement process.

And, for the record, its absolutely possible to be happy and fulfilled in an open relationship.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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