To share or not to share?
That’s the first date question.
Maybe they talk a little too much about their pastdating traumaor their latest work-life woes right out the gate.

Turns out, there’s a new viral buzzword to describe this behavior"floodlighting."
What is The Missionary Sex Position?
Not vulnerability; I call it ‘floodlighting,'" Brownwritesin the book.

licensed marriage and family therapist atManu Counselingin New Jersey
“A lot of times we share too much information as a way to protect us from vulnerability.”
Maybe their oversharing is born out of insecurity or anxiety, too.
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