Misalignment between these needs is to be expected and normal.
In reality, settling just means that you accepted something you didnt like anddidnt say anythingabout it.
That disconnect doesnt automatically signal settling for less.
Once we accept where weare, we have what we need to choose what we want tobecome.
There is no settling down without some settling for.
Acceptance is noticing things as they are and learning to openyourheart and mind for live better with them.
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What drives our fear of settling in a relationship
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Fear of commitment
Worrying about settling may really be a fear of commitment in disguise.
Am I with the right person?
is a question most of us have asked ourselves at one point in a relationship.
Even if a part of you wants to commit, it can still be daunting to go all in.
It is only once you are in this reality, that you might begin to change it.
Fear about your own worth
It is important to differentiate between relationship anxiety and intuition.
For example, if youre worried about their emotional availability, examine the ways you might not be.
Once we are paying attention to our own wounds and needs, we feel more empowered to address them.
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