Your attachment style can affect many parts of your relationships, including your sex life.
See what experts have to say about sexual attachment style.
I say Im just attracted to peoples energy but, clearly, certain patterns have emerged.
Your style can affect any part of your relationship, including sex.
But what can and cant your sexual attachment style tell you about yourself and your preferences?
Avoidant people fall into two sub-categoriesfearful-avoidant and dismissive-avoidantbut both have trouble with trusting others and intimacy.
Chicago-based psychotherapist
Good sexual communication is more important than attachment style when it comes to sexual satisfaction, says Dr. Daramus.
Guess which style is best at communicating?
Unsurprisingly, its secure, andresearch has shown them to be the most satisfied with their sex lives.
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This does not really lend itself well to establishing healthy communication patterns.
They may be better atconsensual non-monogamybecause it demands less of them.
Anxiously attached people also have trouble setting and keeping boundaries.
For an anxiously attached person like myself, this energy is irresistible.
Dr. Daramus points to a2020 studythat comparedpeople who are into BDSMto those who are not.
Furthermore, it isnt to say that only securely attached people have satisfying sex lives, either.
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