Society upholds heteronormative views on what constitutes sex, and it’s invalidating to the queer community.
So what is queer sex?
Simple: by nature of the false assumption that Cyrus hooking up with a girl doesnt count as sex.
And that has to change.
And unfortunately, covered doesnt mean covered well.
The emphasis on penis-in-vagina sex in sex education is incredibly disenfranchising and stigmatizing for queer people.
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LGBTQ+ representation onscreen, for instance, is still pretty darn dismal.
What is queer sex, and what does it mean to lose your virginity when youre queer?
Cyrus was on to something when she posted on Instagramback in July 2019, Virginity is a social construct.
Virginity is, more specifically, aheterosexistsocial construct.
Indeed, the concept of virginity is not based in science.
But thats actually not true.
Basically, thestate of the hymenhas nothing to do with whether a person has experienced vaginal penetration or not.
And furthermore, penetration is not a prerequisite of sex.
sex educator and founder of the Purity Culture Dropout Program
And that answer comes down to how you define sex.
I define sex between queer people as contact with genitals, says Slack.
So did Cyrus have sex for the first time during her girl-on-girl-on-girl hookup?
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