I joked to my roommate.

As it turns out, however, it makes sense that wed developed similar yearnings.

According to mental-health professionals, fringe friends play an important role in bolstering levels of social health.

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What, exactly, is a fringe friend?

We also call this subset of people companionate friends, she says.

Friendships tend to be more sustainable in general when we can hang out in groups, Dr. Franco adds.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

psychologist, friendship expert, and author ofBest Friends Forever: Surviving a Breakup With Your Best Friend

Feel awkward about that?

If that pre-pandemic activity feels a little stale, you could also try re-potting the friendships.

Re-potting is a term used by a digital strategist named Ryan Hubbard, says Dr. Franco.

Books on grief are seen floating against a backdrop of clouds.

I think its important to understand where your current needs lie, says Dr. Franco.

Are they around identity and community, or are they around deep intimacy?

Are they around adventure and novelty, or comfort?

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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