Romantic, unconditional love isn’t the marker of a healthy relationship we think it is.

Here, learn why two relationship therapists say so.

All of that said, its crucial to understandwhythats the case.

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Unconditional love is a distortion of acceptance.

A romantic relationship, however, is fundamentally different from its platonic counterparts, she adds.

Additionally, the needs from your parents can vary greatly from those that you have from your romantic partners.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

relationship expert and former sociologist for Tinder and Bumble

If the answer is yes, that means this person brings out the best in you, says Letich.

Thats a good foundation for long-term happiness.

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Michelle Monaghan, Carrie Coon, and Leslie Bibb in The White Lotus, symbolizing toxic friendships.

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