Is it okay to give your therapist a ‘thank you’ gift?

Mental health experts weigh in on when and how it’s appropriate (or not).

Others assess the individual circumstancesincluding a clients cultural gift-giving practiceswhen deciding if gift-giving is appropriate, she explains.

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They might inadvertently start to favor the gift-giver over other clients who dont or cant do the same.

Theres a risk of exploiting the client.

And some gifts can conflict with therapy goals.

Two people’s legs touch under a table as they work on their laptops.

Chicago-based psychotherapist

And if youre hurt by that rejection, Dr. Manly suggests reframing your perspective.

Therapists love to know that our work is appreciated, she says.

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